KARMA WILL FIND YOU

// KARMA WILL FIND YOU//

I WAS TOLD THAT KARMA WOULD FIND ME AFTER EXPRESSING MY THOUGHTS TOWARDS A PARTICULAR INDIVIDUAL. THE SITUATION WAS I WAS LOGGED INTO A SOCIAL/DATING SITE AND THIS GUY SENDS ME A MESSAGE. HE STATED HOW BEAUTIFUL I WAS AND WHAT NOT. I’M HUMBLE SO WHENEVER I GET MESSAGES OF THE SORT I ALWAYS REPLY “THANK YOU” EVEN IF THE PERSON IS NOT MY TYPE PHYSICALLY. SO WHEN I DID RESPOND WITH MY MERE “THANK YOU FOR THE COMPLIMENT” HE PROCEEDED TO ASK ME QUESTIONS SUCH AS AM I SINGLE, WHAT I LIKE TO DO, WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR AND THINGS OF THE SORT.

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IT’S NOT THAT I HAVE AN ISSUE WITH ANYONE ASKING ME THOSE THINGS. AFTER ALL THAT IS HOW YOU GET TO KNOW SOMEONE. MY ISSUE WAS THAT I HAD ALREADY WILLINGLY PROVIDED THAT INFORMATION IN MY PROFILE IN WHICH IS READILY ACCESSIBLE TO ANYONE WHO HAPPENS TO VIEW MY PAGE. MY RELATIONSHIP STATUS CLEARLY SAID SINGLE AND I WAS HIGHLY DESCRIPTIVE ON WHAT I’M SEARCHING FOR, WHO I AM, AND THE WORKS. SO IT FRUSTRATES ME WHEN INDIVIDUALS ASK SUCH THINGS. WHY YOU MIGHT ASK? BECAUSE IT SHOWS LACK OF CHARACTER. IF YOU ARE TRULY INTERESTED IN SOMEONE YOU WOULD HAVE ALREADY DONE A “PRELIMINARY” ON THEM A LA VIEWING THEIR PICTURES, RELATIONSHIP STATUS, WHAT THEY HAVE TO SAY (IF THEY DECIDED TO SAY ANYTHING) AND THE WORKS. AT LEAST THAT’S WHAT I DO. HOW ELSE WILL YOU KNOW IF THAT PERSON IS EVEN GOING TO BE REMOTELY COMPATIBLE FOR YOU?

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SO AFTER HE ASKED THOSE THINGS I SIMPLY RESPONDED THAT I WAS NOT GOING TO ANSWER THOSE QUESTIONS. I’M NOT BEING RUDE BUT I JUST FEEL AS THOUGH I DON’T NEED TO RE-PROVIDE INFORMATION I ALREADY SPENT MY ENERGY AND TIME IN. SO HE RESPONDS BACK WITH A SIMPLE “WOW” OF COURSE AT THIS POINT I WAS TRULY INSULTED. IF ANYBODY SHOULD BE UPSET IT SHOULD BE ME AND I WASN’T. I WAS MERELY EXPRESSING MYSELF IN A NON-CONFRONTATIONAL MANNER. SO AFTER HIS “WOW” RESPONSE MY SARCASTIC SIDE CAME OUT AND I SAID “YES… WOW AT THE FACT THAT SOMEONE WOULD ASK REDUNDANT QUESTIONS WHEN THEY ALREADY HAVE THE ANSWERS IN FRONT OF THEM. THAT’S WHAT UNWISE FOOLISH INDIVIDUALS DO AND I HAVE NO INTEREST IN CONVERSING WITH SUCH INDIVIDUALS. NEEDLESS TO SAY HE WAS NOT TOO THRILLED ABOUT THAT AND TOLD ME I HAD A “NASTY ATTITUDE” AND THAT I SHOULDN’T BE SO RUDE TO PEOPLE AND THAT ONE DAY KARMA WOULD GET ME. HE BLOCKED ME. WHICH IS FINE WITH ME. I HAD NO INTEREST ON EVEN REPLYING TO HIM ANY LONGER.

SO I GUESS THE WHOLE PURPOSE OF THIS STORY WAS TO INFORM INDIVIDUALS OF MY OPINION ABOUT SOCIAL NETWORKING. READ PEOPLE’S PROFILES FIRST BEFORE HITTING THEM UP. YES THAT PERSON MAY BE ATTRACTIVE AND WHAT HAVE YOU BUT IT SHOWS A LOT ABOUT YOUR CHARACTER. IF YOU’RE GOING TO ASK QUESTIONS IT SHOULD BE REGARDING THINGS YOU ALREADY READ SUCH AS “I SEE YOU’RE SINGLE… HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN SINGLE?” OR “I SEE YOU LIKE TO READ WHAT ARE SOME OF YOUR FAVORITE THINGS TO READ?”

(SOURCE: DIARYOFTHEHEARTLESS-STREETDREAMS)

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